Remember, the only thing before everything, is to have a dogma. A dogma is a list consists by DOs and DONTs. You make it, stick to it while adapt it to reality, question yourself from time to time: is everything on the list mutually exclusive and collectively exhausive?

And there is a meta dogma for dogmas:

  • Avoid emotional tactics
  • Every kindness counts
  • Gentleness is the ultimate strength